
By Johanna Aimse, Research Assistant, Universities of Essex and Kent
Introduction
Even in today’s era of social media transparency, every society harbours unspoken dark secrets. One of those is children being removed from their mothers and given out for adoption without mothers’ consent.
Such situations occur for multiple reasons. But often, mothers are forced to fight the system either during the most challenging time of their lives or right after giving birth, which is something that the media to this day does not talk about.
Many mothers lose contact with their children due to unfavourable outcomes in the legal and social systems. This experience has led them to go on living with overwhelming feelings of grief, depression and loss.
The Artists’ Book Project
Over the past year, Dr Stella Bolaki of the University of Kent and Dr Samantha Davey of the University of Essex have conducted research on how creative methods could help mothers who have lost their children through adoption proceedings to process difficult feelings.
They have organised workshops for mothers and social workers who participate in such procedures. Different workshops were held with therapists, barristers and other professionals who would like to learn more about the challenges these mothers face and use the project activities to inform their practice areas.
Stella and Samantha have led face-to-face and online workshops. During the workshops, mothers craft a book out of a variety of materials provided to them, allowing them to express emotions they find hard to share for fear of judgment, trauma or guilt among others.
In combining the visual and the textual, the artist’s book expresses thoughts and experiences in ways words alone cannot. It operates as a creative outlet even for those who do not view themselves as “an artistic person”. The ability to experiment with different textures, colours and layouts allows mothers to strike a sensitive balance between healing, self-reflection and emotional release – the ultimate goal of the workshops.
Mothers describe the process of having their children removed without consent as disempowering and dehumanising. The workshops were designed to be a safe and supportive environment for mothers to connect with each other while making books. Being in an environment where they are free to share their experiences and feelings while being validated and understood by those with similar traumas seems to have a healing effect. Participants also received support from qualified counsellor Amanda Swan.
The feedback mothers gave showed that working on their books in a supportive environment facilitated the processing of some of the feelings and memories which many had forcefully held back or were forced to forget. Thus, the workshops have proven successful in allowing the participants to take creative steps towards healing.
Spreading awareness
The project’s future will see a new website and social media pages to spread awareness. Furthermore, cooperation with different charities and networks is planned to reach more mothers who need help or would like to discuss their experiences in the system.
We are keen to hear from mothers who can help bring diverse perspectives and voices to this study. If you have had a child removed and placed for adoption without consent, you are invited to participate in the research study, for which you will also be compensated.

If you would like to find out more about joining the project, please contact Dr Samantha Davey at smdave@essex.ac.uk. For further details on Dr Davey’s earlier work on adoption, see A Failure of Proportion: Non-Consensual Adoption in England and Wales.


